Help your child to recognize his mistake
Error committed by many parents, a recognize that when one of their sons who committed error arises and the parents are punishing the child or the son of this error, the result is that the child is afraid of mistakes and honest with the other if one told him, this put the first seeds of false personal deceptive cowardly! ..
Experts say that you should listen to the child and give him time to explain the cause of this error and should not be make him to feel fear, but assure him in order to learn him the correct way to act, and encourage him to tell the truth and candor is always, which helps in the construction of personal courage are able to take responsibility and confrontation and bear mistakes.and the ability to repair.
It also helps parents to know the problems that face children early so they can help him and resolve the problems and errors quickly before the problem occurred, the child's acknowledgment of his mistake a healthy habit to be encouraged by.If we wish to punish the child
Dr. Abdul Wahab, professor of psychiatry said,
- That the people of fixed rules of right and wrong and not to leave the punishment to the mood of parents and their condition psychological, if they were nervous punished the child but if they were calm doesn't punished him .. so disturbed measures of the child he did not know right from wrong,without fixed rules is the worst way for his education and deal with the child.
- Do not frown in the face of the child or excessive anger and not to instill fear in himself, it must listen to him and we know the correct way.
- If the mistake not deserve punishment must explain the error of the child and explain how not to fall into it again.
- If the punishment deserved punishment must be meaningful and not offensive to children or offensive to the dignity or a painful example if you break the glass of water can be an alternative to buying a cup or pocket money or cleaning up the effects of breakage, it must not be exaggerated punishment.
- The parent should know that the capacity of the child is limited and he was still in a learning stage that has the right to commit some mistakes, there is no one learn without mistake.